Selling the Way Your Customers Buy

Ever heard the expression, "It's not WHAT you say...it's- High-S: People with a High-S (Steadiness) style want
HOW you say it"?you to get to know them. For a High-S, it is all about
Well, it's probably safe to assume we all agree withthe relationship. They will buy from you because they
the concept here, at least on the most basic level.like you and trust you. They will shut down if you
Reality is, WHAT we say Is still important. But I'm surebecome pushy or demanding.
if you took a moment you could think of several- High-C: Firstly, this group of individuals has nothing to
instances when it was HOW a person said somethingdo with the popular, juice-box drink. High-Cs
that made all the difference.(Compliance) want to be sure they are making the
The same applies in sales.right decision. They want you to present information in
To win the business, you have to speak thea logical, linear fashion. They want the details and time
customers "language".to go through them. They will tune out if you make
Striking Goldclaims you can't back up with hard data or try to force
You have to figure out how each prospective buyera decision before they are ready.
prefers to be approached...Do they want to skip theHere's the wringer: most sales people sell the way
small-talk and get right into the details? Or do theythey want to be sold to, instead of changing their style
want to "shoot the breeze" a while first? Are theyto align with their customer's buying style.
assertive or passive? Creative or analytical?So what happens when a High-D (get to the point)
The answers to these questions will define yoursales person tries to sell to a High-S (get to know me)
customers "buying style". Once you master the art ofcustomer or when a High-I storyteller tries to sell to a
adjusting your selling style to match your customersHigh-C (give me the facts) customer? Usually
buying styles, you've struck gold!nothing...nada...zip...zero...sale lost!
DISCLAIMER: Whooooa...Ok - let's pause a minute...IIf you're not adapting to your customer's buying styles,
know there are at least 5.2 bazillion articles, books,you're losing sales - not because the product doesn't
training programs, and so on out there on the market,meet the customer's need or because the prices is
all attempting to convince you that their salestoo high - simply because you're selling using the
processes, platforms, strategies, models, techniqueswrong style.
etc...are hands-down THE BEST. There's "StrategicRecognizing Buying Styles
Selling", "Solution Selling", "CustomerCentric Selling",Truth - More people than you think can use, can afford
"How to Master the Art of Selling Anything", "SPINand genuinely do want to buy what you have to offer,
Selling", to name a few.but they are secretly desperate for you to sell to them
I'm not attempting to compete with those guys; quiteusing their buying style.
the contrary, actually. While they focus on WHAT youSo, how exactly do you recognize a person's buying
do, this article focuses on HOW you do it.style? It's actually fairly easy once you train yourself to
The goal is to:look for "the clues". And people leave clues about their
- Improve your success/close rate by up to 40%buying styles everywhere - in the things they say and
- Avoid costly mistakesdo, the way they decorate their office, even in their
- Recognize each buying style when you encountervoice mail messages.
themFor example:
- Connect with prospects/customers immediately- If you call and get someone's voice mail and you
- Know what to do/not to do when selling tohear, "You know what to do," then you know right
customers with different stylesaway, this person's buying style is a High-D: you should
In short, the "buying styles" philosophy will complementbe brief and direct. Get to the point; don't waste time
any sales methodology you currently usewith idle chatter. And you know this from just four
What are "Buying Styles"?words!
The "Buying Styles" philosophy is based on the D-I-S-C- Or, suppose you hear, "I am sorry that I am not here
behavioral model. There are four basic buying styles.to answer, but your call is very important to me.
Granted, people use a combination of buying styles;Please leave a message and I'll be sure to get back
but, in general, one of these four styles will dominatewith you. Have a nice day." You can tell from the
each of your customers' buying patterns.language that this person is screaming "Relate to me" -
- High-D: The High-D (Drive) buying style is direct anda very High-S message. This person wants you to get
decisive. They want you to cut to the chase, tell themto know them. They want you to take your time,
what you want them to do and let them know what'sunderstand their needs, and build trust. The point is
in it for them. They will tune out if you take too long topeople are telling you how to sell to them, if you are
get to the point.paying attention and know what to look for.
- High-I: The High-I (Influence) style enjoys engaging inHarvesting the Gold
conversation and discussing the big picture. They wantYou've probably had some success selling using your
the stage: they want you to get them talking aboutown, personal style. Imagine how much more
their needs and experiences and to engage them insuccessful you could be if you recognized and
how they will use your product. They will lose interest ifadjusted to the way each of your customers buys.
you go into details or don't keep the conversationBut, the message here is simple: adapt or continue to
interactive.be much less successful than you could be.